January 3, 2010

Security- Protecting What's Important


When you walk into a fine jewelry store, there's a security guard standing by the door. And you may not consciously think about him/her, but your perception of the store changes. You probably realize that there are high-worth items inside, precious things that need guarded, and you know that management has arranged security because of their value.

In your home, at night, you probably lock the doors. You want to keep your loved ones safe, even though you probably live in a safe neighborhood. Same with your car- I bet you lock your car even when you leave it for only a few minutes. As the owner of that car, you want to ensure its (and your) security.

Security on an airplane is quite a different thing. We don't protect our valuables- I've seen too many people leave their computer or cell phone or purse in their seat when they go to the bathroom. Parents leave small children alone to fly unaccompanied. People even leave a drink unattended for a moment when sitting next to a total stranger. But the most difficult thing for me to comprehend is how we are so intolerant of airport security screening procedures, impatient with crew members, inattentive to safety briefings, and yet outraged at the current state of threat.

Being a Good Global Citizen means increasing your situational awareness. The first step is to make yourself aware of issues, particularly threatening issues, and then acting and behaving in ways that protect and enrich our lives. Our personal security is at risk every time we step outside of our house (indeed, you must believe it is a risk even inside your own house- because you lock your doors). This security risk increases exponentially the farther we get from home, as we immerse ourselves in other cultures, go up into the air, expose ourselves to the elements. This is not to say that you should not take such risks- in fact, quite the opposite. I believe you don't truly grow and understand this world until you get out there in it and live it fully, meet new people, see things that will make your brain work hard to understand. But as you do so, you need you increase your situational awareness. Be cautious. Be observant. UNDERSTAND what is going on around you.

So increasing our situational awareness is the first step to security. Airlines have put themselves in a tough position. They have become victims. As an industry, they sit nearly idle waiting for someone else to ensure their security. Yes, indeed the crew members do have some security and safety training. But unlike Tiffany's, they do not personally employ security guards. I would argue that a plane full of passengers contains inventory far more valuable that that inside a retail store. I think the only real solution to airline security is for airlines to employ, as crew members, company security guards. These would be two (or five or ten or one) more crew members who get scheduled for flights like pilots and flight attendants and ensure, both visibly and invisibly, the safety of the passengers. The costs would not be as extreme as the amount of money our government spends (effectively??) on airport security. And make no mistake, the cost of your airline ticket ensures your SAFE TRAVEL from point A to point B. It does not (and never has) read in your ticket's fine print that the airline owes you food, blankets, or entertainment. If you want these things, bring them with you. An airline ticket only brings you safe travel. It's time to put the safety back in that statement.

December 29, 2009

Your Place In The Crowd

Don't kid yourself: You ARE involved.

The world we live in is fluid and enveloping. We affect our environment just by existing in it. Anthropologists widely recognize that you change your environment merely by observing it. There is no passive existence in this world. You cannot look on from a distance and think that you are irrelevant. OK- so that is important to understand. Now we can realize why we must be Good Global Citizens: it's because our presence is powerful. We are players in this game whether we chose to be or not.

Today the news is filled with dramatic stories of situations worldwide and touching pieces from close to home. They all have one thing in common- someone got involved and changed the course of events. Usually these people chose to be involved- they stepped in when needed, they took action when they saw a cause, they were part of a chain of events. But look in the periphery. The most amazing content is that about the bystanders who didn't actually stand by. Someone got involved merely due to proximity. They became heros or victims.

There's no such thing as being just a "person in the crowd". The crowd itself is an entity, made up of unique individuals who can influence the pattern of the party in a split second. If one person were to shout "FIRE!" then the crush would begin. One person can start a chant. One person can ignite an emotion.

The power comes from what you choose to DO with your presence. Consider how you will turn your potential energy into kinetic energy. Smile and put a warm feeling in your heart so that the energy you resonate will be welcoming to those around you. Echo peace so that your environment will be shaped by your calming presence. Offer help- become actively involved rather than passively impressive. Educate yourself so that you can educate others.

One person CAN change the world. Your presence DOES matter.

December 27, 2009

Reach for Dreams and Be Brave


A friend just informed me that a recent lost opportunity wasn't worth trying for because he didn't get it. That made me a little sad. There are a million adventures waiting to be had- some good, some bad, some scary, and some that are NOT to be missed. Most will change the direction of your life forever, in one way or another.

It is important to reach for dreams and stretch yourself. You learn a lot about yourself when you venture bravely out into the unknown. You must be daring and bold if you are to evolve. Only through the process of trying and failing and trying again and succeeding do we truly know success. If it's not difficult, it may not be worth having. So I implore you to set lofty goals, chase your dreams, and try...try...try again until you taste success or find yourself on a new path.

You must also remember that you are setting an example for someone. Someone in your life looks up to you, follows your every move, or just watches with loving curiosity the way in which you compose yourself after failure or handle the dangerous emotions of success. In both failure and triumph you can express grace and dignity, a quiet thankfulness and contentment, or you can boast and brag and make a fool of yourself. Someone is watching. What a great opportunity to be a role model for your admirers. Feel good about yourself in your efforts and strengths and learning milestones. Focus not on the outcome of your adventure. To live life fully you must be ambitious, brave and giving. Help others be bold as well. This is the way to a rich life, my Global Citizens.

December 24, 2009

The Globalization We Share With Each Other


Two friends surprised me with their globalization today! I write to ensure you know how very connected we all are, whether by kinship or vision, and these are two shining examples:

I'm looking for a destination for our next vacation. I assure you that every spot on this earth has been under consideration. I am not very good at planning vacations very far in advance because there are too many possibilities and my interactive mind sends ideas colliding into one another until my thoughts spin into chaos. My strength is in last-minute planning. Not procrastination, but "power-planning". I do very well under pressure, and not so well with leisure. So as I was updating my friend as to our current vacation plans (which will surely change again) she suggested a location (in a perfect Italian accent, no less) that I had not considered. Of course, to my surprise, she had been there on a magical adventure and I smirked with the realization that I had not known that she was so well-traveled. I shall not assume this again! I knew that my friend was wise to the ways of the world, perfectly eloquent about any topic one would care to discuss and intuitive as well. But I'm giddy with delight to know that globalization is going on behind my back, haha!

My other friend is a writer, an executive and a sage. She's truly a dynamo. She just returned from Africa where she advised and participated in a wonderful tapestry of events that culminated in a first-ever pageant bringing ambition and awareness to what I believe will be millions of people. This is a story about connecting women, providing inspiration and sharing hope. The lesson here is that we can all get involved, share a story and help make dreams come true. Please follow her blog at www.katcole.com. You'll be amazed at the business savvy, the kinship and the globalized mindset so powerfully packaged in one woman's soul.

Consider the globalization that you share (whether you know it or not) with your fellow citizens. We influence each other more than we realize. You leave a mark on each person with whom you talk. They remember small things you say, memories you mention and suggestions you give. Being good to each other is the first step. Broadening the minds of each other is the next!

December 23, 2009

Life is a Roller Coaster Ride

Life is a roller coaster ride! I was reminded today of the highs and lows that we can experience, particularly at this time of year. The expectations that we impose upon ourselves are enormous. And so I wanted to share a bit of relief with you: it's OK! It's OK to feel harried; it's OK to be frustrated; it's OK to feel like you just can't possibly please everyone, get everything done, and be as amazing as you'd like to be.
The point is to live your life fully, shortcomings and all. I feel so blessed to have my friends and family as a strong support system. I love to meet new people, share experiences, talk to old friends, connect with a kindred soul, and experience that emotional connection that happens when you look into someone's eyes and they nod in understanding.

Yesterday a friend had a difficult day, and he handled it with grace and poise that I've never seen before. I was amazed. Yesterday I talked with a girlfriend who (despite being Wonder Woman herself) shared with me her fears and shortcomings. Elegance comes from within, and these two friends are phenomenal examples of gentility. I hope that I'll master the sophistication of peace that these two must feel in their hearts.

So here is the gift and lesson that I'll take from my two friends: strength and remembrance. The next time I encounter something difficult, I will truly count my blessings. I will remember the gifts God has given to me and that He made me strong enough to handle the trials that I face. I will also try to be an example for the people around me and strive to be the person on the outside that I want to be on the inside.

And remember this: if I've met you- I've learned from you. Were you the example you hoped you'd be? And everyone you've ever met has learned from you as well. Good or bad. So be good! Is what you're doing reflective of the BEST you can do? This is why you are a Good Global Citizen. God bless!

November 29, 2009

Advent


Today marks the beginning of the season of Advent- a time of preparation, gratitude and grace. This is a wonderful time to look inward and reflect upon how prepared we are for the future and the great things that are to come.

As I light the first candle today, I revisit the gifts that God, my family and my friends have given me to prepare myself for the blessings that are to come. I think my greatest strength is curiosity. I have an active mind and an inquisitive soul. How can I use this gift to help others in this world? I hope that I can be the brave one who asks questions when no one else does. I hope I can find answers and ignite conversation and put thoughts deep into the minds of those around me so that they too might be fueled by curiosity.

Let this time of preparation also be filled with motivation and action. This is a great time to reach out to old friends and lost connections. This is a great time to meet new people and get to know acquaintances a little better. The stronger our bonds and relationships are, the stronger our community is. Good Global Citizens will enrich this world when we have mass of numbers, because then each small, kind action will have ripple effects; and our preparation for the future will be easier.

November 28, 2009

Inspiring Windows of Light


I met with a Good Global Citizen today. This was a refreshing and uplifting meeting that changed my way of thinking. It's so helpful to discuss ideas with someone and really get creative while at the same time remembering efforts of the past and adapting them to current situations. My GGC buddy opened up windows of light in my mind. She articulated concepts that I was toying with. She spoke her mind, shared her experiences and nodded her head in understanding. Thank you, GGC! You've inspired me.

I only wonder, now, how I can help inspire someone else? I hope that I can have a thoughtful impact on someone tomorrow- it's a favor I now owe. As someone working to become a GGC, I look to emulate people I admire. And today I was inspired.

Peace and inspiration to you today as well! You never know what impact you're having on someone's twirling mind.

July 22, 2009

Dawn and Friendship


I just read an excellent blog on the advantages to waking up early. I myself am an early riser. I think there is nothing so peaceful as watching a quiet sunrise, preferably while running at dawn. It is a serene solitude of thanksgiving and a chance to pray and reflect upon my blessings. I feel alive and energized with the rising sun. I accomplish more tasks and conquer them with more pleasure in the early hours, and this rush of adrenaline, inspiration and happiness is remarkable.

We are all fueled by some sort of emotional bliss associated with time and place. Sometimes this enlightened state comes from solitude, prayer and reflection (like my early morning runs) and sometimes it comes with partnerships and friendships. I had a wonderful weekend with girlfriends as we escaped for an athletic adventure while networking and forming friendships over a shared interest. It is important to nurture friendships, stretch yourself in conversation and activity, learn, plan and laugh. You must live life fully and help others to do so. Congratulate each other on achievements, improvements and efforts. You should appreciate the fluidity of life, the style of a unique individual and the sensory rush of visiting someplace new.

Gwyneth Paltrow writes a wonderful blog and elicits the opinion of guest professionals and writers. Her latest "BE" newsletter is on sustaining happy and successful relationships. It is an excellent collection of essays that will touch and inspire you.

http://www.goop.com/newsletter/43/

So that, then, must be the key to happiness! Cultivating friendships and devouring your day (right from the very start). How much more could I accomplish if I have the support of loyal companions, family and comrades alike? How much more love and thanks could I give if I start at the dawn of each day? Fulfillment is there for the taking, if only you seek it out and nourish it with well-tended friendships.

Now, early to bed! Say your prayers. And tell someone you love them. It shall all be repaid.

July 16, 2009

The Power of Touch


There are many paths to healing, and I believe that we are empowered to heal ourselves (whether that is through traditional medical advice/treatment, prayer/spirituality, self-understanding and enlightenment, changes to diet/exercise/lifestyle, Eastern medicine or other modalities). I believe that one of the most powerful healing remedies is through touch and human contact. Simple touches, like a pat on the back, the casual hug or a quick kiss on the cheek often are used as small signs of affection and congratulations, or sorrow and understanding. A caring touch can translate a world of emotions. The embrace of a lover, holding a baby or petting a dog can all transform our feelings into a quiet and soothing happiness.

Service animals, particularly dogs, are used in hospitals and nursing homes to comfort and entertain people. When asked to pose for a picture, friends gather together in a group hug without prompting. Many people articulate their conversations with a touch on the arm. And we are taught to shake hands with new acquaintances to show respect and welcoming. Massage is therapeutic. The shampoo and scalp massage is the best part of a haircut. You hold hands with loved ones. The greatest compliment is to have touched someone's heart and soul.

The opposite is also dangerously true. You cross your arms when you're mad. Solitary confinement is used as a punishment. You back away with fear. Loneliness is debilitating. Many studies point to the difficulties of children raised without affection.

We know then, that we are a social world. Animals travel in packs. People gather in communities. We identify with our chosen friends and families. Business is about networking. Experiences are to be shared.

What then is our obligation in making the world a better place... our community a better place... our household a better place? A great gift would be to share and touch and give of yourself that moment of emotion or compassion that you haven't given often enough. You have a power to heal yourself and can change someone's life. Look someone in the eye and give them a moment of your time. Touch them on the arm. It will touch them in their heart.

July 15, 2009

A Wider View

See what you're NOT looking at.

It's usually the case that one person sees a situation one way and another person sees it differently.

Oftentimes we turn a blind eye to things that are uncomfortable or that we can't understand. It's OK not to know the answers. It's OK to stray out of our comfort zone. Sometimes we forget that we weren't meant to be in control. Otherwise how would we ever learn to deal with adversity, loss, disruption, death, and setback? There is no growth if we don't realize that we're not at the top. In fact, loss is a gift, difficult as it may be. It teaches us about strength and whom to trust or love. Hardship teaches us to pay attention to our world, prioritize our needs and know compassion for the people in our world. We can't open our eyes wider if we don't know that they are shut.

Empathy can be the bridge that connects us with others. It breeds mercy and kindness. It gives us courage to stand up and help our fellow man, teach children or save animals, and basically treat the world around us with respect.

This is a beautiful weather system that I had to circumnavigate. The sky was a glamorous shade of blue and the clouds were shades of silver and white that can't be described boldly enough. It was breathtaking. The radar picture was a patchy echo of green and yellow specks. The air was rough and the airways were turbulent. From the ground, people saw rain and darkness. A cool relief or an impediment to summer's fun? Beautiful to some, frightening to others, natural of course, but casual to many. All viewpoints are valid, but do you see them all?

Peace and reflection be yours.

July 10, 2009

Taking the First Step

It's always difficult to be the one to stand up and do what's right. Situational challenges and current culture often cause hesitation when daring to challenge the status-quo. This is true whether you are an individual, an organization or a country.

I do not normally enjoy the news 'opinion' pages. I feel like they are meant to incite angst rather than educate or inform. However, this story from the New York Times is an exemplary article. Bono is an inspirational character who shares his emotional and intellectual talents with the world. He is a GoodGlobalCitizen.


http://www.nytimes.com/2009/07/10/opinion/10bono.html?emc=tnt&tntemail1=y


Heartfelt thanks should be given to those who spend their days charitably working for the good of others, whether in this country or abroad, whether at home or across town. Selfless acts of charity and time are the hallmark of a GoodGlobalCitizen. Do what you can for your charity of choice. Do not call attention to yourself- act quietly, do the dirty work, be brave. Do call attention to the cause- post it to your website/social medium, ask your friends for help, be brave.

Remember now, in your heart, someone who gave charitably. Give thanks. Pass it on. All it takes is one step, and sometimes you have to be the first to stand up for what's right.

July 5, 2009

Citizenship

What does it take to be a good global citizen? First you must realize that it is but by grace of birth that you are who you are. This wisdom was shared with me when i was very young. You could be anyone anywhere at any time. But God chose your spirit to reside in your body and you have been called for a higher purpose. You are important! You have something valuable to share with this world - and the first step towards that is to open your eyes very wide and observe...open your ears and listen...open your heart and mind and learn. Only then can you participate in full citizenship.

Citizenship is more than a geographical identification. One must also contribute to his/her society based on his/her talents. Citizens are vested with rights and are members of the society. In any other organization in which you are a vested member, you would have to pay dues, provide leadership or service, or contribute to the organization in some manner. What is it that you are contributing to your country of allegiance?

For example, look at your talents. I cannot build a skyscraper, perform medicine, or create the doctrines and develop the sciences that make our world run. But I have a deep appreciation for those who do these things, and I recognize the talents I have that contribute to my society.

Fortunately there are a multitude of talented people in this world. Unfortunately we are divided by geographic and political boundaries. The plight of the immigrant is often necessary and difficult. Some relocate due to familial needs, some for work/health/labor opportunities, and some for oppression avoidance. Does immigration make our country richer or our social, political and economic situation difficult? Yes. There are many sides to the discussion. The bottom line is the human connection we have with each other in this society. Through the research of these arduous subjects we can reflect on our own family situations, political viewpoint and community involvement. Are you learning about this world with each current event you encounter in the news? I hope so.

So in this forum we will discuss various topics of worldly events, people, happenings and reasonings. I have much to learn, and I have many questions. Journey with me.

July 2, 2009

The Spider Web Networking Effect

What I like about this simple picture is how much information it contains that may be overlooked by the casual observer. You can see in this photo a little about my family life (I'm married). You can see that my hands are muscular and slightly calloused and therefore I have a job requiring manual dexterity. You can see the carpet in the background and guess where this picture was taken. And if you are so inclined, you can read the lines on my hand and know something more metaphysical about me.
Perhaps you identify with one of those things. If so, then we have a connection--and something immediate to talk about. It's important to take a closer look at the familiar things (and people) around us. We should be conscientious of the people around us and recognize the connections that we have with one another. There is usually something with which to conjoin immediately- an identity that both people share.
There is an amazing revolution taking place around us. The bounty of social networking opportunities is exploding. Type "Social Networking Websites" into Google and revel in the number of ways you have to connect with friends, colleagues and wanderers with whom you share a common interest. Online media has given way to print and visual/audio media in providing us with a wealth of connectivity, but none of these would be possible without the human element.
I believe it is our responsibility to help each other grow. We were created as a world of many; we cannot live or flourish on our own. Let us reach out to each other and share the knowledge and friendship that will enhance our lives. Use the social networking revolution to bolster mankind!
Get the name of the next person you meet. Observe that person closely for a minute. You surely know 2 people who would be interested to know that person / can offer that person some advice / already know that person and want to reconnect / are interested in the same things that person is interested in. Share this information. Pass on the link. Create a smaller world by connecting just 2 people to your new acquaintance. Imagine what would happen if you did this with 5 people. And those 5 people connected 5 other people.
This is what I call the SPIDER WEB NETWORKING EFFECT. It can be accomplished through any media, at any time, and with any person. Like the lines on my palm are connected and mean a great deal more than my physical characteristics, the Spider Web Networking Effect is more than just intersecting lines and loose connections. This is the evolution of social media and human relations. When we help connect each other, we've made someone's world bigger and our global community stronger.

June 30, 2009

Social Media

The "social media" revolution has come to fruition. There are extraordinary ways of staying connected, meeting and learning. The internet is a powerful tool for marketing yourself and your brand, not to mention putting out your message, reaching people and literally changing the world. I followed a fantastic conversation today about the power of social media content. The bottom line is this:
**Decide what position you take in this world- What is your stand?
**Represent it well.
**Encourage people, provide recommendations and offer solutions.
If you use media content to connect with others, watch first, then when participating, give AND take. Offer what you have to offer.
As a Good Global Citizen we are here to empower others. We should share our knowledge to empower others. There's a strong link between us all and it just takes a small gesture of kindness to change the world for others.
Life is not a spectator sport. Are you active or passive? Do you give to others as much as you take? Feel free (it's EXPECTED) to take advantage of the opportunities out there. Ask for help. And give back.
Enjoy your day. Share.

March 25, 2009

Spring has come and brought with it a new beginning. It's a refreshing start year after year and this rebirth of the season I'm inspired to share my experiences around the world and close to home. I think it's important to be a good global citizen, and I've realized that this is not a mission one undertakes alone. So we shall embark together in this journey.